the moth approach

So it occurred to me that I could sometimes fall pray to the moth approach to amorous connections. Ya know where the shiny thing distracts me and captures all my attention. Then I just end up burning my self out on it. Eewwww. I would say that I was gonna do all this introspective work and find a new healthy strategic approach to it but let's be real here. I am going to have to depend on luck to see me through... cause I have to be genuine in my interests both with my self and others. Sometimes that means being a fly by night little tart. Sometimes that is gonna mean being brutally honest and taking a pass on things don't ring my bell. Phew that is all worked out.

So I had dates (minor ones - meet and greets) set up for tues, wed, and a date date for tonight. So far both Tuesday and Wednesday have flaked on me at the last min. I am hoping I can at least score one out of three for pete' sake. Please O' Universe I would like to spend some good times with someone who is a) attracted to me b) I am attracted to and c) is available