I want a partner. Outside of judgment and feminist prose and the fear of the pathetic stink of desperation I really do want a partner. I am happier partnered and I have been alone too long.
Once I have accepted that it now bears asking what kind of partner am I looking for.* And me being me I will break it down to categories.
The physical
- 5'8 to 6' feet or so
- Strong
- Smells good
- Cute in the face (cute being subjective here)
- well equipped, but not too well equipped
- skin that is nice to touch
- Smart... really smart
- likes to solve puzzles and create things
- Would enjoy making things with me
- likes to socialize
- reads
- wants to learn new things all the time
- is a masochist
- and adventurous
- pansexual
- likes rope
- loves sensation and games
- loves my body
- can deal/work with non-monogamy
The emotional
- is emotionally available
- pays attention to details
- likes to show affection though touch
- wants to be connected
- has a complex heart
- can take risks
- willing to know and love me
The logistical
- Has time... lots of time for me
- has room for me and my big life to crash into him and his big life
- can support himself
* this me me me, what I want list in in light of the fact that I have equal kick assery to offer.
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