(see breakout below)
Now that that math is done what would those things look like?
- attention - this is just a matter of clocking time.. at least 1 in person a week… but 2 would be better.
- sex - at least once a week… also need to work on what kind and making it good for me first, e-function
- affection - greeted with a kiss, left with a kiss. Greeted with touch. Frequent massage esp head rubs
- an outlet for my darkness and creativity - scenes
- conversation - lunches, dinners, walks, projects
- devotion - asks permission before doing things with other peeps, dates with me come before other players (all with good manners), Always calls when plans change
- connection (however limited) - remembers what I like, shares things
What do I have to offer?
attention, creativity, affection, sex, time, focus (caveat, this list contains only the things I think wouldn't be rejected. I also have love, companionship, partnership, excitement, and community to offer)
Also a topic to be worked on… how to not get attached? Write some rules.
- Go at least several days a week without initiating contact.
- Date other people
Advantages
- attention
- sex
- learning how to be with someone in the moment
- companionship
Disadvantages
- rejection
- attachment leading to heartbreak
- performance anxiety
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